By Erica Spitulski

Ladies, there is a time and place to cut back on fashion extravaganzas in our lives. Wait, wait – before you go running from the room and hide, hear me out. I am the crown princess of avoidance when the words cutback and fashion are used in the same sentence. Even when they’re used in the same day! I am not expecting myself or anyone else to wake up tomorrow and vow to stop adding to our style-piles. But seriously, do you even really know what is already lurking in the recesses of your cramped closet??

A few weeks ago I decided to have a garage sale. Um, yes, I know – garage sales are scary and overly time consuming, not to mention they often bring some fairly odd strangers to your home to paw through the things you hated enough to sell for fifty cents and now they’re touching them and judging them and thus judging you which brings out that childhood anxiety that always leads to you overanalyzing yourself… Nevermind, maybe it’s just me.

Anyway, as I began the purging process pre-garage-sale day, I came very near canceling the whole affair! Being that I expected to make at least enough for a great lunch out, definitely a new outfit or two, and perhaps even a massage I knew there had to be appealing eye candy for all those ogling drive-bys. The tired black A-line skirt was paired with the raspberry v-neck cotton t-shirt, the ever-so-boring gray slacks were coupled with last year’s amber scoop neck sweater set, and my ex-favorite red sassy dress joined up with Aunt Janies “slightly used” silver wrap.

Okay, you waited for the big Kabow! of how this has anything to do with fashion cutbacks that aren’t painful. Guess what?? I had this great epiphany while I was looking at these rather ingenious pairings of mine. I had never worn that black A-line with the raspberry T, I had not once thrown on the gray slacks and the amber sweater together and my sassy dress had not had the opportunity to play with Aunt Janies wrap before! Yes, that’s right; I had at least 3 (it actually ended up being about 23) new outfits in my closet already!! Don’t we all get so caught up in always pairing the same blouse with the same skirt, with the same handbag week after week? BORING!

Now, you’ll have to trust me on this, but it can actually be fun once you get started. Pick a day when you have a couple hours either to yourself or with a girlfriend or two who have an eye for style. Now, head into that war zone of a clothes bin that also functions as a closet and pull everything out. No, not just 3 things – everything! Go through your dresser too. Get it all out on your bed, sofa, floor – whatever works. Now, resist any urge to revert to past outfit pairings. Just say no! Take a chance and mix things up a bit. Dare to be bold in joining up that salmon 3/4 length sleeve button up with the royal blue pinstriped suit. Grab that ho-hum chocolate corduroy skirt and ravish it with the divine lime T that you thought went with nothing but jeans. You get the picture.

It is absolutely amazing how many more choices I found, without spending a dime, just by revamping my pairings. If you are really feeling your funky self, take the plunge into your handbags, shoes, scarves, belts and jewelry too. I’m telling you, I was almost trembling with post-shopping euphoria after finding all the “new” things I had to wear – and there would be no creditor calling on the payment for these steals!

Now, I am not going to lie and pretend like I have given up shopping. That probably is just not ever going to happen. But, the money I made on the things I chose to part with during my afore-mentioned sale went much farther on accessories to jazz up my fresh styles than they ever could have on complete new outfits.

Next time join me in the search for super hot accessories that will perk up a droopy wardrobe quicker than any plastic surgeon – for a lot less too!

By Lisa McShane

So you have meet up with the guy you talk to on an online dating site the other day and you have decided to keep seeing him on the possibility of starting a new relationship with him. But the problem is, you just don’t know how to ask him out again! Don’t worry; we have some great solutions for you.

Before we move on, have you ever thought about some ways to get a man to ask you out? Is there a special guy on your list that you would really love to date but don’t want to make the very first move?
Have you learned how to behave, talk and dress in ways that make you more approachable to a man? Here’s some advice for women dating men.

The common problem is that girls don’t feel it is acceptable to make the first move so she has to keep worrying about how to make herself seem dateable. If you have a guy in mind for dating, let’s take a look at how to get him to ask you out.

Advice for Women Dating Men#1: Be infinitely approachable.

You need to make a decent effort to be approachable regardless of your clothing, make up and tone of your body. Smile at him and let everyone know you’re the friendly sort of person. Don’t forget that most men are terribly insecure and don’t wish to be rejected.

If you look great but he’s not approaching you, think about whether or not he’s feeling like he might get rejected and change your smile and stance so you look like you want him. Pay attention to this dating advice for women.

Advice for Women Dating Men#2: Don’t forget to be fun and have fun

If you have something in common, go ahead and play that up. For example, if you both like mountain-climbing, you already have a great deal to talk about on your date. You shouldn’t spend the entire date talking about just that one thing but it can serve as an anchor and will show him that you’re fun to be with.

The best advice for women dating men offers this piece of advice: If you don’t have much in common, then joke around with him, laugh and generally let him know that you are fun to be with. You can build activities around one another that you will eventually have in common.

Advice for Women Dating Men #3: Skip the desperation.

If you find yourself thinking that you can’t be happy without a man in your life, you will come off as too desperate-a definite turnoff for a guy. It is a better idea to make yourself approachable so he asks you out first rather than resorting to being the one to make the first move toward him.

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By Tony Sharma

Makeup trends change subtly from season-to-season. Since each season verbalizes its own rules and fashion trends, therefore its necessary to obey those fashion rules not only in terms of clothing but also in terms of make-up. We do not wear make-up as a muffle to conceal our face, but as a way to emphasize beauty and nuances of our beautiful face in a proper manner.

Makeup trends for fall/winter 2009 seem to be inspired by a wide variety of concepts. This year runways featured either bold and black-inspired makeup looks or a more pared down natural beauty for fall season. The color-scheme of cosmetics for winter 2009-2010 is full of contrasts.

Here are three makeups must have makeup trends for fall/winter 2009:

Cat-eye makeup: The cat-eye makeup which was a leading trend in fall 2008 is still around for fall 2009, but in a modified form. The tail end at outer corner of eyes stays horizontal and straight rather than sweeping up and out. This look, exaggerated on Lorick’s runway, which was paired well with smoky espresso or velvet textured eye shadow. From runways to latest beauty campaigns, sooty black liner smudged the eyes with vampy blackish red lips! Luxurious golds and amber, moss greens, smoky grays, and deep shale are the highlights of fall 2009 eye makeup color palette.

Natural-looking and bold eyebrows have been a mainstay in beauty over last few seasons, and they continue to be a strong trend for fall/winter 2009 as well. A heavier, thicker black or brown eyebrow gives a more youthful appearance, making it a favorite choice for most women.

Lip trends: The lip trends for fall 2009 have gone completely bold. Black has been reinterpreted in lip colors too, resulting in a very extravagant, sophisticated and hot look for chilly weather. But if you have chosen bold makeup for eyes, it would be better to go for innocent colors for lips like pink, violet, and fuchsia. This will allow laying more emphasis on eyes. Popular lip colors for the season include plum, berry, and wine shades, as well as muted reds.

Givenchy Les Poetique, Chanel Noirs Obscurs, Lancome Declaring Indigo, and Bobbi Brown’s Chrome Collection are some really adorable makeup lines for this fall and winter.

Sheer foundation makeup: Foundation makeup colors tend to remain same from season-to-season. But still, each season brings about a new texture to explore. Heavy winters often inspire a matte, powdery look that is absolute opposite of sheer looks of summer. Fall 2009 has taken the hold of sheer foundation makeup trend of summer with a few tweaks.

Sheer foundation makeup looks more natural than matte looks. Instead of a thicker matte texture, makeup trends for fall and winter this year, are calling on wearers to continue using their tinted moisturizers, with soft layer of translucent powder. There is another way to stay current with foundation makeup trends. A high-definition makeup can be done with a lightweight, oil-free base that perfects skin while still looking soft and natural.

Bare Escentuals makes great foundation kits that match skin tones and are easy to use. Best of all, they give a completely natural finish that can give a look of naked skin. Finish it off with a slick of balm and a swipe of mascara and you are done! The biggest key to this look is to remember that the right skin prep comes first in order to look flawless.

Like any other time of year, Fall 2009 stays away from featuring more than one focal point of face. Choosing to wear a bold lip color with neutral, understated eye is in line with fashion trends emerging for winters. On contrary, smoldering, intensely painted eyes will look best with a natural, soft lip color and delicately enhanced cheeks. Skin paleness is also in with its natural tints.

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Tony did his Ph.D. from the Honolulu University, Hawaii. After completing the doctoral degree, Tony joined Hewlett Packard as an Design Engineer. He left HP in 2004 to do independent consulting and then in 2006 joined CouponAlbum to help people save money.

By Lily McCallister

What are the holidays without the holiday parties? But as much as we love a good party, it does get stressful looking in the closet and thinking you have nothing to wear. Relax. Any fashion school grad will tell you that you probably have the core elements to the perfect holiday outfit in your closet already. You just have to know how to build on it. The dos and don’ts of what to wear change depending on the type of party, so here are some helpful hints to help you celebrate the season in style.

The dressy party.

Do: Start with the basics. Whether you’re heading to a chic cocktail party or a more formal affair, the proverbial little black dress is a great classic to build upon. In fact, unless you’re going to an embassy ball, something knee-length is appropriate for most dressy occasions. Think chic and simple, and leave the glitz to your shoes, accessories, purse, and perhaps a jacket. For this season’s most fashion forward look, don a cape over the ensemble. As for the men, a dark suit always looks handsome. But try wearing a colored shirt with a coordinating tie so the suit isn’t so serious.

Don’t: Overdo the glitz. A dressy party is not an excuse to go crazy with sequins, feathers, faux fur or metallic gold and silver. Keep embellishments limited to your accessories. And do not wear a poufy ball gown or a tiara. That goes for the guys, too.

The office party.

Do: Remember that you will still be in a professional work environment, even if the party is off campus. The key is to not veer too far from how you normally dress; start with a tried and true office look, and then add some zing to it. For example, if you typically wear a pantsuit, swap out a shimmering turtleneck for the blouse. Or wear the blazer with a pencil skirt instead of the pants. As with the dressy party, you can also add instant glamour to your look with some strappy shoes or a sparkly evening bag.

Don’t: Show too much skin. Do not use the occasion of an office party to show everyone your physical assets. This is not your chance to come out of your shell. And men are guilty of this fashion faux pas as well. Guys who unbutton a few too many buttons or sport tight leather jeans will have their co-workers talking about them for all the wrong reasons.

The friendly get-together.

Do: At casual holiday gatherings with friends and family, you have a little more leeway in what to wear, but you should still dress like you have some fashion design sense, or at least common sense. Fish around beforehand to see what other people will be wearing, so you can be in the same ballpark. Of course, the most wonderful thing to wear at an informal gathering is cashmere. If you have ever hugged someone wearing cashmere, you know why you’ll be the most embraced person at the party.

Don’t: Wear themed holiday clothes. Step away from the Christmas sweaters. Put down that necktie that lights up. They may look fun now, but photographs will be taken, and these photographs will haunt you for years to come.

Sure, it can be stressful navigating the rules of what to wear for a holiday party, but remember the most important rule of all: have some fun.

If putting together the perfect outfit for a party is fun for you, you might consider a career in fashion design. Visit FIDM, Fashion design school for more info.

By Christiana Lee

Have you been trying to think of the perfect holiday gift for that special girl? If you’re tired of buying the latest fragrance basket of flower gel and bath salts, opt for something a little more daring this year. Dare to shop for that special girl in your life at an exclusive lingerie site featuring flirty little skirts that will help her to look her sexy best!

You may already have a pretty good idea about what will most flatter her figure, but browsing through a wide variety of photos of real women wearing these articles will help you to get a better idea of exactly which hot little number will look best on your girl’s figure. Sure, you can wander through lingerie boutiques by yourself, staring at the skirts on the racks, and fantasizing about what that little leather and lace piece will look like on her, but you’ll probably have to endure some looks from shopkeepers who are certain you have a problem rather than a girlfriend!

Sexy lingerie sites offer a wide variety of colorful, cute little skirts that will make the wearer look like she’s getting ready for an exclusive modeling contract with a nationally known photographer. The wide assortment of color and sizes will ensure there’s something for everyone, from the gymnast with the size 0 waist to the proudly full-figured woman. You’ll be able to find a skirt that looks flirty and sexy on any woman you find attractive.

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Whether you’re looking for leather and lace, gold lame, or zipper skirts, you won’t be disappointed. Just browse until you find exactly what you’re looking for. Of course, if you are in the mood to indulge in some harmless fantasy and costume dress, there are some sexy little skirts here that could be worn by an angel in white – or by the daughter of the devil himself! Let your imagination run a little wild, and pique her interest as well as yours with one of these hot little numbers.

Online shopping also offers anonymity and security. You won’t have to worry about storekeepers giving you the evil eye for browsing one section a little longer than they think appropriate, and no one will be watching you out of the corner of their eye, wondering who you’re buying that skirt for. Your financial and personal information is safe as well.

With online shopping, you can use your credit card on a secured server. The likelihood of having your personal information or credit card information stolen is much less than even that of walking into an exclusive high-end lingerie boutique and entrusting your card to the store’s owner!

So the next time you’re in the market for a hot holiday gift for that cute little number in your life, start shopping online at a sexy lingerie store, and find the skirt of your dreams. With any luck, it will be the skirt of her dreams as well. It just might be a holiday you will never forget!

A lady who finds her boyfriends desires in sexy lingerie for women and a sheer babydoll, Christiana Lee knows what she is talks and writes about when it comes to sexy bedroom apparel.

By Vinn Wring

What makes lingerie so enticing? What is it about this loose yet sexy piece of garment that drives the men crazy? One of the main reasons why women buy lingerie for themselves is because they want to accentuate several intimate parts of their body, which normally would make a man drool at the site of her wearing it. The two main body parts being enhanced by lingerie are the bust and the legs, the former being one of the highlights of wearing lingerie. If you’re a busty woman, most likely the best lingerie to wear on your honeymoon, anniversary, or simply a spontaneous weekend getaway at a resort or beach with your beau would be busty lingerie. This kind of lingerie, accessorized with lace, beads, and the like, enhance the look of your bust by either exposing them slightly or emphasizing the cleavage. Depending on what your preferences are or how daring you want to be, there are all kinds of lingerie that drive the eyes towards the bust in stores nationwide and worldwide.

So the main question arises: Where can you find busty lingerie? You basically have two choices to pick from depending on the accessibility, your preferences when shopping for lingerie, and how much your budget is. You can either shop in the main lingerie stores at the malls such as Nordstrom, Victoria’s Secret, and Marks and Spencer or buy from online lingerie sites such as Bare Necessities Online and Fig Leaves Online. These stores are there to serve you with the best of the best, providing you with lingerie that will accentuate your body, bring out the sexy girl in you, and make you feel confident like never before. What’s more, these lingerie stores don’t limit themselves to just size 2 to size 6 because plus sized lingerie have already gone out into the market to cater to plus sized women who are searching for lingerie of their own.

Unfortunately, buying lingerie online can be a little intimidating and scary if not done with the right information and the right techniques, so to be able to buy lingerie without having to worry about losing money or being scammed, here’s what you can do:

• Always remember to take your body measurements first before selecting a lingerie store to buy from. The site needs to have a sizing chart to give customers an idea which size they belong to, so make sure that you take your measurements, particularly in the shoulder, bust, waist, and hip areas, before purchasing online.
• Contact the seller and get to know his or her terms and policies first before making a deal with him or her. You should especially ask what the seller’s payment methods are to ensure that your money can be refunded even if you get scammed, the most popular being Paypal.
• Lastly, when buying busty lingerie online, take the time to read the product descriptions first because you may miss out on a particular detail or two that could lead to returns back to the seller.

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